Leave the Haram & Sin and See what Allah gives you !!! Extremely Powerful ~ Ustadh Wahaj Tarin
How to Give Up Sins (for Muslims)
There are many, many Muslim brothers and sisters throughout the world, who due to various negative influences and bad elements, find themselves unattached from Deen. Many others sit on the fence, wanting to enjoy or benefit from both sides of the fence – engaging in sins as well as being practical on certain teachings of Deen. However, deep in their hearts is the desire to get back on track, and once again become good, practical Muslims, to jump off the fence and enjoy the green pastures of Islam.
Stop indulging in sin.We all sin sometimes and even excessively indulge in those sins, but we can learn to moderate this by following Islam. Many who followed through with this prescription have found a whole new life – of peace, happiness, blessings and mercy. On tasting the sweetness that comes with obedience, there is no desire to return to any form of disobedience. Try to understand why Allah Ta'alaa has made the rules that He has made and do your best to follow them in full. Be aware that whilst Allah Ta'alaa is inclined towards mercy for those that sincerely repent from their sins, he can be severe in punishment for those that disobey Him.
Abstain from all sins, out of love for Allah Ta’ala.He has granted us everything and asks for very little in return. It is the nature of human beings that we love the person that is kind and generous to us. Then what of Allah Ta’ala who has provided us with plentiful blessings – in fact, with everything? The sight, hearing, speech, the organs that are functioning in such an amazing manner, the limbs – all in our service – for eating, drinking, walking, sitting, etc. The gifts of wealth: the clothing, shelter, transport, food, drink, and so many other comforts. …We use them all, but do we keep in mind, the Generous Benefactor? Do we give thanks for these bounties or show any appreciation to the Giver? All he asks in return is that we worship and obey Him.
Develop the conscious awareness that Allah Ta’ala is with us.He is watching us, He is hearing us, He knows all and everything about us. We cannot hide from Him nor can we conceal our actions from Him. Then should we not feel ashamed that in His Presence, we are disobeying Him? Are we not showing ingratitude to the Benefactor, when engaging in sins in His very Presence?
Remember the angels too are witness to all our actions.The earth is recording our behaviour and that all of it is also noted in our books of deeds – that we are accountable to Allah Ta’ala on the Day of Judgement. Added to this, our actions are also presented to Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam), so we should give thought to whether our actions are a source of joy or grief to him. …In this manner, we will develop that shame and modesty which will make it easy to restrain from Haraam.
Reflect daily.Muraqaba is meditating on the actions engaged in during the day: We should reflect over our deeds for the day and seek forgiveness for shortcomings and resolve not to return to those bad deeds. We should also express gratitude on good deeds and make dua for an increase in them.
Ponder over the fact that the Angel of Death does not give respite.It must not be that whilst obeying the Nafs in sinful pleasure, the Angel of death visits; and departure is in disgrace, and return to Allah Ta’ala is at a time when He is angry, and that death is an embarrassment to the person, family and community who find out that death came in sin. May Allah Ta’ala protect us all from death in a state of transgression, but this is very much a reality.
Ponder over the fact that Allah Ta’ala has blessed us with the gift of sight, hearing, health, wealth, and so much else – and has also granted us the gift of respect.However, what He gives, He can also take away. He has explicitly stated that ingratitude for His Gifts will draw very severe punishment. So is sin not abuse and ingratitude for the gifts of sight, of heart, of mind, of limbs?
Contemplate on the consequences of such behaviour and a little bit of Mujahada – which entails ‘not doing’ and Alhamdulillah, the sicknesses are cured.You may find it helpful to read up about some of the punishments that Allah Ta'alaa has prepared in the Hellfire for those that disobey him.
Attend the talks of the learned Scholars of Islam whenever possible, or listen to recordings of their talks and read their books to gain benefit of pious, righteous company.Join and participate in the Deeni activities with those who follow the Qur’an and Sunnah. On will, Insha-Allah, find a great improvement in one’s condition by keeping the right company
QuestionIs Allah ok with it when I ask people if they are proud of me?Top AnswererYes, there is nothing wrong with that, but you shouldn't perform actions to please others, e.g. praying to show others that you are religious. Otherwise, that's fine.Thanks!
QuestionIs it shirk to try to impress someone by showing them how brave I am or showing them how dark of a sun tan I got?Top AnswererNot at all, but showing off is discouraged as we should stay modest and humble. Shirk is when you associate a being to Allah.Thanks!
QuestionWould Allah be okay with me having female friends?Top AnswererThis subject has lots of controversy and different opinions surrounding it. I believe that this is fine as long as you are modest and speaking to someone modest. For example, do not spend too much time with them or flirt with them. As long as you lower your gaze, this is fine.Thanks!
QuestionWhat does it mean to equate someone or something to Allah?Top AnswererWhen someone worships another being besides Allah, assigns one of Allah's attributes to someone other than Allah, or worships scholars thinking that they are blessed and can bless others, that person is equating someone to Allah.Thanks!
QuestionIs Allah okay with me drinking soda?Top AnswererOf course. It's fine to have fizzy drinks such as Coca Cola and Pepsi as long as they do not cause intoxication in large amounts.Thanks!
QuestionIs it a sin to not listen to or disrespect your teachers in school?Top AnswererYes, because Islam teaches us to respect our elders and to respect our teachers.Thanks!
QuestionIs Allah okay with it if I politely argue with my parents?Top AnswererYes, as long as you don't raise your voice, insult them, speak condescendingly or hit them.Thanks!
QuestionWill the Dajjal appear before or after the sun rises from the west?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerHe will appear before. The sun will rise from the west, and then comes the horn where we all fall to the ground.Thanks!
QuestionIs it shirk when people worship money?Top AnswererIf by worshiping money you mean praying to it and finding hope and happiness in it, then yes, that is shirk.Thanks!
QuestionDoes Allah (swt) find it disrespectful to say "So?" when my parents say something to me, even though my parents don't consider it disrespectful themselves? My parents think I am respectful to them.Top AnswererIf your parents are angry with you, then Allah is angry with you. If they are pleased with you, then Allah is pleased with you. So if they find you respectful and obedient, you are pleasing them, as well as Allah.Thanks!
- Give up television viewing. …90% of the content is Haraam. If a person offers a full glass of clean and pure water, and mentions that there is just one drop of urine, would any sensible person, drink it?
- Read good, Islamic literature. Abstain from magazines or books that have filthy and indecent contents and pictures.
- Make the effort to read Salaah punctually. Men should make every effort to read their Salaah in Jamaat.
- …Then when the major content of television is Haraam, what would we then say? When the gaze, heart and mind are consuming and digesting so much of Haraam viewing, what else would be the end result except indulgence in the same Haraam?
- Dress as a Muslim should. Men must wear their pants above the ankle and keep their beard one fist in length - these must not be considered as insignificant actions. These are teachings of Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) in which he has emphasized such actions. Although it is permissible to wear the shirt and pants, the dressing of the righteous (i.e. the kurta) has a speciality which benefits in different ways. A person with this appearance will think a hundred times before engaging in an open sin, when he is being recognized as someone who takes their religion seriously. So this attire and appearance will offer a protection, Insha-Allah.
- Women too should dress modestly as prescribed by the Shariah. Covering the body in loose clothing is obligatory. Showing the face and hands is considered permissible but full coverage is recommended..
- Lower the gaze from the opposite sex. Muslims must avoid any unnecessary interaction, such as chatting, and never ever allow themselves to be alone with an unrelated person of the opposite gender.
- By doing these few things, you have won more than half the battle. And it is not as difficult as Shaytaan and Nafs will whisper. A little courage, a little effort and a little sacrifice are all that is required.
- May Allah Ta’ala grant us His Love and the Love of Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam), such that it becomes easy to give up all sins and submit to His Obedience. May He protect us all from the mischief of Nafs and Shaytaan. May He fill our hearts with Love for this beautiful Deen and inspire us in being a practical and good Muslims and be true role-models to our community.
- Of course, these are just basic aspects of Deen, which everyone can implement immediately and easily. There is a need to fulfill the Obligatory Injunctions such as Salaah, Zakaah, Fasting in the month of Ramadan, etc. and to fulfill the rights of family, neighbours and others. There is a need to read the Qur’an Sharief regularly, together with some authentic commentary – a little at a time, as well as giving time to studying some book on Islamic Jurisprudence and reading the life and teachings of Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam), etc.
- A reading of the books of virtues of actions such as Salaah, Fasting, Hajj, Sadaqaat, Zikr, etc. by Shaykhul Hadith Maulana Zakariyyah Saheb (Rahmatullah ‘alayh) will create enthusiasm in the heart for action.
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